inform her but don’t influence her.
she won’t ride if her bike isn’t comfortable enough or fast enough to keep up with you, if those things matter to her. you need to talk to her to find out why she wants a bike and what kind of bike she wants, not tarckbike.com
my girlfriend rides a raleigh c40 comfort hybrid 40# monster and it’s the most comfortable thing ever, but she’s winded just rolling down a hill trying to keep up with me. either i go very slowly everwhere (and she still overexerts herself) or i try to get her on my road bike, which i bought small specifically so i could fit her to it as well, and she can’t get used to how harsh it rides.
what i’m saying is, if she says she wants to get a bike, great.
but inform her decision, don’t influence it- make sure she gets the one she wants, not the one you want her to have. and also- big advice coming up:
TALK with her about why she wants a bike. does she want it for her own reasons, like transportation, exercise, and fun or does she want it because she wants to spend more time with you? both are good reasons but you need to talk about it so that you can best suit those needs.
300 spent on two, a pair of target(not walmart, fuck walmart) beach cruisers will be much more fun to ride together than 300 spent on a windsor she’s going to hate or a atb she’s going to fall behind on.
also, if you have a car and a rack you can drive to a destination with the bikes on and that way you get to bike in an ideal location together, like the beach, without wearing yourselves out getting there… unless you live in an ideal, fun biking location.
i live at the top of a HUGE hill (400 feet of elevation in less than a nautical mile) and it’s scary going down into town and it’s murder coming back up… i am finally able to get up in my lowest gear on the road bike but when i do get up i’m soaked in sweat and winded. my girlfriend has to walk the bike(a forty pound monster) back up and is even worse off. it’s not fun.
so really talk about what your goals are, and what you both want out of it. then, inform her about bikes but don’t influence her by saying tarck bikes are awesome because of all the good things about them and all other bikes stink because they don’t have as many color options.